This week I fell down the stairs and injured my back/hip/tail. I’m in pain and it’s hard to move…
My go-to feeling when I’m sick, injured, laid up – is FRUSTRATED. I’m a physical being who needs to move in order to feel complete. I detest being forced to be still.
I had to teach a class this week – the topic? GRATITUDE for your body. Reframing our negative voices about our body into giving thanks.
As I was sitting there with an ice pack on my a$$…I thought, “Holy crap…thanks Universe.”
Because here was the opportunity to actually stand in my frustration, reframe my attitude towards my body, and then teach a class on it…
So that’s what I did. I centered myself, took a piece of paper, and wrote 5 things that I was grateful for in that moment about my body…
What are your 5 things?
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Loving on your beautiful self can get lost in the shuffle of life. All of a sudden at the end of your day – you’ve given at work, you’ve given to your family, you’ve given-given-given…except to yourself.
Self-Care is a gift you give your SELF. And I propose that it these small acts of kindness woven together throughout our day that promotes SELF-LOVE. Self-Care is a steppingstone to Self-Love.
We spend a lot of time worrying about what our body looks like.
A LOT of time.
Often that energy turns into loathing, flagellation and negative thoughts toward your beautiful self.
When you notice this happening, try thinking about all of the amazing things your body can DO. Because it’s pretty f(*&king miraculous.
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Let’s change this one-note tune that we’ve been singing for soooooo long.
What are you letting in? How is it making you feel? Why are you letting it into your space? Your space is yours to be protected.
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You ever have those days that your ass apparently has grown two sizes overnight?
I have those. I wake up and I am like, “What in the actual f(*&?”
But I remind myself that it’s an illusion…it’s all in my head.
There isn’t any WAY to gain two sizes in my sleep.
Back in West Michigan, I interviewed a recovering bulimic. She was an Olympic medal winner who was outspoken about her disordered eating. She told me that when she has those days, she thinks hard about what’s stressing her out. For her, stress = illusion of weight gain. Once she could figure out her stressor, she could be like, “Ahhhh…that’s why.”
So what do you do when you wake up and feel this way?
Change your perspective.
Here are some tools that may help when you wake up and feel uncomfortable in your skin. Click here if you want to print them out and stick them up by your full-length mirror.
Give it a try and let me know how it goes.
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So much peace and love, Sarah
When my kids were both finally in school, I knew I needed to do some work around self-love and self-compassion. So I designed a self-study course for myself. High on the list was a book by Kristen Neff called, “Self Compassion.” You can see her TED Talk too by clicking here.
One of the exercises in the book was to write a letter to myself from the position of a loving friend.
It was a game changer for me.
You try. Click on this link: http://self-compassion.org/category/exercises/
Do Exercise 3.
The…if you want, click and do all of the exercises and meditations.
You’re worth it. xo.